Is community norms

I tried three different approaches and none of them felt quite right. Spent the last few weekends digging into this and the deeper I go the more questions I have. Long-time lurker, first-time poster.

Maybe an unpopular opinion but here we go. Posting this here because the relevant subreddit has gotten too noisy lately. There is a lot of conflicting advice online and most of it is from 2019.

Not sure if this is the right place to ask, mods please remove if it is not. Looking for honest feedback, not validation. Not sure if this is the right place to ask, mods please remove if it is not.